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Jan 27, 2012

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Yesterday, my grammy died. She went into the hospital on monday because she was having a hard time breathing, and tuesday she was getting better, on wensday she was move up to the ICU because her breathing go worse, and on thrusday we found out she had a massice tumor in her lungs, and diead 45 minutes later, with us all around her.
I'm glad that it went qick, and she wasnt in any pain, and that we were all there with her. Letting her know we all love and cherish her. And telling her she would be with grandpa soon. Wich does help.And now she is wilth all her brothers and sisters. She lost her last living brother just 2 weeks ago. So now all 10 kids are up there having a much needed family renunen. It's been 8 years sence grandpa died, and thats all she wanted in the last 8 yeas to be with him again, it's no wonder, they were married 57 years!

So the never few weeks, months are going to be, well, hetic. of course.... so much is going to change now.
I live with my mom & dad, and my grandma... we all lived together, i help her out, and whatnot. But now that's she's gone, we can't afford the house we are living in anymore.... So we having to figuare out something...
Anywho, I'm not one usually asking for prayer or good thoughts, but right now we need it.
Sorry for all the misspelled words and the hurriedness of this , but i'm sure you all quite understand...
so, yeah, I'll be here, there, everywhere for a while, poping in when i need a break from everything thats going on....

Thank you all! you are all amazing and i'm glad I have this little community to talk to!

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family tons of good thoughts. Hang in there. Report Spam Posted by cristina at 12:13 PM on 01/27/12
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts will be with you and your family!!! : { Report Spam Posted by kelsjax at 12:36 PM on 01/27/12
heartfelt story! Report Spam Posted by kristiwheeler at 1:00 PM on 01/27/12
I will pray for you and your family!! Report Spam Posted by kristiwheeler at 1:01 PM on 01/27/12
I'm so sorry, Betsy. I'm very close to my grandmother as well, and terrified of losing her. I wish you and your family all the best in getting through this tough time. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here. Report Spam Posted by sorapandora at 1:31 PM on 01/27/12
So sorry for your loss. Report Spam Posted by doubleletterlady at 1:33 PM on 01/27/12
Best wishes for healing. This is very sad news, indeed. Report Spam Posted by margareto at 1:40 PM on 01/27/12
So sorry to hear of your loss Betsy. I understand how tremendously painful a loss like that can be. Sending you and your family love, prayers, and wishes for healing. This is so sad and I'm sending you a virtual hug. If you ever want to talk or vent, I'm here for you just message me. Luv, Shorty Report Spam Posted by sweetshorty at 2:10 PM on 01/27/12
Betsy, my mom and dad lived with us for a long time and when my dad died...mom was lost. It was such a hard time for all. Don't just give up on your house without looking into what resources might be available to help. My daughter walked away from her house, my nephew sold his house in a short sale, and the only two other houses on my side of this street are both empty because the people walked away. Government, and other agencies don't want any more vacant houses. I'm sure that' not the top thing on your mind right now though. My family and I will be praying for you and your family. We will pray for your grandmother too....but we both know she doesn't need it. And I am sure they are all praying for YOU. (((Hugs)))) Pat Report Spam Posted by paws72 at 6:15 PM on 01/27/12
<3 Report Spam Posted by hollywallygator at 6:21 PM on 01/27/12
P.S. Until I realized why you had her picture as your avatar, I was going to send you a "cute pic" note. I am glad I didn't do that, but I do want you to know she is a pretty lady and her love shows in her face.I think her gift of showing love for others was passed on to you. Report Spam Posted by paws72 at 6:28 PM on 01/27/12
heartfelt condolences to you n' your family...sending you positive energies toward finding a housing solution sooner than later...big hugs,gayle Report Spam Posted by artisangoods at 6:41 PM on 01/27/12
So sorry for your loss!! Prayers for you and your family!!! Report Spam Posted by susan_brown at 6:51 PM on 01/27/12
I'm sorry, I know you hurt. My grandpa died eight years after my grandma died and yes, it's good to know they're together again. That was so good that you and your family could be with your grandma and that you had such a close relationship, that's a beautiful picture of her. You have my prayers and condolences. Report Spam Posted by markblemish at 8:24 PM on 01/27/12
I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! Report Spam Posted by her_arsenic_kiss at 9:38 PM on 01/27/12
Sending good thoughts your way. It sounds like your grammy was well loved. I know you'll find a way to pull through that honors her memory! Report Spam Posted by alicatstrut at 7:40 AM on 01/28/12
I'm sorry for your loss. It's always so difficult for the ones left behind. Grammy is with Grandpa and family, like you said. Let that give you the strength you need to get through the changes. She may be in a different realm but she is still with you, rooting you on. Report Spam Posted by luv2kreate at 1:24 PM on 01/28/12
Im sorry to hear of your loss. I have recently lost family as well. I send you my positive energy, deepest regards & brightest blessings Love & light Report Spam Posted by mysticalmooncreations at 2:05 PM on 01/28/12
I'm so sorry to hear that. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Report Spam Posted by sweans at 3:34 PM on 01/28/12
So sorry about you losing your beloved grammy :-( Hang in there. Prayer works. You'll be in mine ;-) Report Spam Posted by cimino68 at 3:43 PM on 01/28/12
<3 Report Spam Posted by southerncharm at 9:22 AM on 01/29/12
My sincere condolences. I'll be sending positive waves and prayers your way. What a terrible situation with your home right when you are grieving. Report Spam Posted by socalsurfista at 2:20 PM on 01/29/12
Oh...I am sorry. I am thinking of you and your family. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feeling with us. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. Report Spam Posted by clothesminded at 3:27 PM on 01/29/12
Sorry for your loss Report Spam Posted by thelovehammers at 6:16 AM on 01/30/12
So sorry for your loss, your grandmother will be missed. How lucky she suffered for only days......and not months. It is so hard to see someone in pain, gasping for each breath, fighting to stay alive, week after week, knowing that there was nothing the doctors can do except keep you as comfortable as possible with pain meds.....drugged up not knowing who is in the room. It's a blessing that she was surrounded by a loving family when she went to be with your grandpa. Report Spam Posted by gravityx9 at 7:52 AM on 01/30/12
So sorry to hear this Betsy. It sounds like she had a long wonderful life and an extremely loving family. Sending love and prayers your way! Report Spam Posted by sweeetkristen at 10:29 AM on 01/30/12
I'm very sorry. Report Spam Posted by redefinethis at 1:50 PM on 01/30/12
I'm so sorry for your loss. We will be here whenever you need a smile. <3 Report Spam Posted by mollysaurus at 7:55 AM on 01/31/12
My prayers are with your family and yourself, Betsey Thank you for sharing and I'm so sorry for your loss but hang in there <3 Love, Linda Report Spam Posted by hawklns1 at 10:58 PM on 02/17/12
Betsy you'll always have your Kaboodle friends to lean on <3 Love, Linda Report Spam Posted by hawklns1 at 11:01 PM on 02/17/12