Men always seem to be made fun of, to be taken for granted, and they have only one day out of the year when they are shown appreciation. They are usually portrayed as dumb or lazy on popular t.v. shows or a burden to the womn in their lives. 

So help me paint a different picture. 

Of course there are other men in my life who have inspired me and helped to make me the woman I am today. But this is about the two and a half men most important in my life...

My father, he taught me the value of hardwork and to never, ever let anyone push me around. He taught me to always stand up for myself and the things I believe, even if it's not always popular. He taught me to be strong and independent, but also to be humble and to give my love freely, even if there was a risk for a broken heart.

My husband, who pulled me out of a dark time in my life. He taught me that I am much more than my mistakes. He taught me to not beat myself up, and to continue moving forward. He has taught me to not give up, and taught me to push myself further. He has helped improve my spiritual and emotional well-being. I know he'll always be there to catch me when I slip or fall, but he won't allow for me to be dead weight either. He'll always encourage me to do my part.

My son... before him, I had an excruciatingly painful void in my heart. He has taught me that there is always room for more love, and though it may feel like it, my heart will not explode from it. He has taught me to love even more than I could have dreamed, and when I look into his eyes, when I watch him smile, hear him laugh, I know for a surety that there is good left in this world. There is not a doubt in my mind that he is pure and loving, and this little angel loves me right back and accepts me completely, flaws included.

So who are the most important men in your life and why?