What should I do to boost my self-esteem?

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May 29, 2009

I wanted to know what type of clothing could either boost or destory a womens self esteem and why. I don't have very much self esteem myself, but i want to know how to fix that. I wnat to be confident in myself, but I really don't know where to start.

I 17 years old and I am having problems with what I see looking back at me in the mirror. So I need advice.
For the next month or so i am going to do whatever it takes to put myself esteem, in the place that i want it.

arilace: Which item would be sexier on a women with low self esteem? 05/29/09

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Women\'s Ruffled Henleys from oldnavy.gap.com

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Sparkling Collar Black Halter from plussizefix.com

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Hi Arilace! Good for you for making an effort to boost your self-esteem! I'm not sure there's a recipe for clothes that make you feel great other than finding things that you feel confident wearing, accentuate the positive, and don't push you outside of your comfort zone. (A wise stylist once told me, you have to wear the clothes--don't let them wear you.) So you really need to try things on and see what makes you feel good. One thing I have learned over the years: How people perceive you is less about how you look and more about how much confidence and comfort in your own skin that you project. But here's the secret: You can PRETEND you feel good about yourself, and if you do it long enough it actually becomes real. I know because I did that very thing when I was your age. You will grow into you, so just focus on your heart, take pride in your goodness and glory, and wear it proudly. A genuine and kind soul is the most attractive accessory of all! Report Spam Posted by erika_sf at 8:23 PM on 05/31/09