wedding

this is a GORGEUOUS place to have your wedding, it will be a memory that you will NEVER forget..

small weeding you want everyone to be there.

wow i think ive been here it look so fimiliar

I would want my family there...

all your friends and family will be there, plus you get gifts.

so i'm a romantic... go all out on your day .... you rarely get a second chance. guess it is voe (voice of...) speaking. married 21 yrs, didn't do it our way, wish we had.

Have a casual, fun wedding! You'll be glad you did! I am!

I did it the other way and recommend the small wedding

it looks more romantico!!!

it's too important of a day. you won't regret it. plus it's still relatively small.

Romantic trip

Just think how romantic, and what stories you'll have to tell afterward!

although its more expensive i think its nicer when you have people special to you sharing in your celebration

This would be more memorable. It looks romantic

ELOPING IS FOR THE GAYS. CHOOSE LOVE AND NERVOSSSSS

get married in the carribean or pacific side of Mexico and let anyone who can afford a week or so off pay their own way. You can find some lovely restaurants for under 1000 that will even let you get married right there by the beach!

get married in the carribean or pacific side of Mexico and let anyone who can afford a week or so off pay their own way. You can find some lovely restaurants for under 1000 that will even let you get married right there by the beach!

Have the small wedding and then go to Barbados.

Let your family enjoy your special day! You can do a small wedding for even less than $3000 if you handle most of the details yourself.

If you can afford it, I vote for the wedding. I wanted to elope, but he wanted a day with all our family & friends. I'm glad we did!

The way I look at it, I only PLAN on getting married once...and I'd want to share it with people I love and make it a day I'll always remember. Congrats!! :c)

if ur close to family and friends you'll regret eloping. Pay for the small wedding. Even though it's more money you'll get so back in gifts!

you will always remember this, you want to share it with people u love, its your day!!

You might regret it if you don't.

this is a special day spend it with loved ones

I think that a wedding/marriage should be for the friends and family to see your love.

looks pretty on the out side

That looks absolutely beautiful for a wedding, and what a memorable one it would be if you had it there.

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40 guests at $3000 is not bad at all for a wedding at least you're not spending 30,000! Happy wedding and a great marriage to you!

share the special day

Its a big day so why run away!!! :D

Share this once in a lifetime moment with those you love.

go for it

I am only twelve so it doesn't really mean much to me.

you will remember your wedding forever. Keep it small, but make it a day you will never forget!

This way you will have no regrets and will never wonder what it would have been like to have the "fairytale wedding."

I'm so conservative... but I also couldn't imagine getting married without my best friends and my parents there. I'd have to go for small wedding!

wut the inside look like

I say go for the small wedding...you'll be able to cherish the memories with loved ones later. I had a small wedding on the beach w/ 3 guests...and then had a much larger reception at home to share with everyone else.

to elope means to run away from something. are you ahamed of your choice?? if not have the small wedding. :)

This was easy. To share this memory with family and friends is a must. Have a smaller wedding and go to Barbados for your honeymoon. That's for the two of you.

later on youmight regret not having a wedding with friends and family

You parents want to be there

romantic

beautiful

elopment is wonderful, you get to spend your special day with just yourselves and it is a lot more cost effective. but when it is all said and done, a great party with great friends and family is worth the cost.

just a copel thousand more.. and you get your family and just magical moments!

you never get this day again (supposedly...) get the video camera and show it to your kids... They will love every second of it!

oh, i don't know... i'd always go for the romantic, fairytale-ish wedding, you can elope later for your honeymoon to Barbados or wherever you want but you can't really recreate this stylish mansion the next time you wish you've gotten married there :)

i have had both small is better and u will want your loved one there. elope i wished my family was there. even tho it was so much easier!

This would be My choice, but, if traditional wedding isn't very important to you, and you think you would enjoy eloping, go for it.

u will hopefully have only 1 wedding and the memories will be forever.. it's a girls dream to have the wedding of their dreams

Though you can never really have as small of a wedding as you want. :)

eloping may seem fun and cheaper, but think of all the people who wont be there and if you have kids do you wont to tell them you just got eloped or do you want to tell them about a beautiful small wedding

the place look nice. small group of guest, better.

i think elope sounds boring

Eloping is just like a vacation anyway. you can do that anytime.

e1 will remember it forever & so will u, trust me if u don't do the small wedding u'll regret it lol i do

i like the idea of a small wedding with only your closest friends and relatives

always nice to have friends and family to share a special moment with

beautiful pic

You'll regret not having a wedding later.

u might regret it later...

I would definately do this one!

A small wedding for that price isn't all that bad, and it's more memorable for everyone, I feel.

If you elope, you risk hurting people's feelings, and people probably won't give you wedding gifts. Still, you should be able to plan a nice wedding inexpensively. Pick what is most important to splurge, and be conservative on everything else. But STAY AWAY from David's Bridal...those folks will send you spam every day for a long time.

I eloped. But, I kinda miss not having my wedding, with family and friends.

It is something you'll always remember, plus guests=gifts!!

this one

There is nothing to replace having family & friends on your special day.

intimate, Vegas is so Britney Trainwreck Spears

Just went through this with about 60 guests. It was an excuse for a party and to get all of our friends from all over the country together. If you can dictate the list, do the small wedding

I say small wedding. You want to share this time with your closet friends and family

weddings are special..you won't regrt it

While a wedding is "supposed" to be for the bride and groom, it's really a way for your friends and family to celebrate your happiness with you. If you elope, you rob them of that chance. Plus, you'll always wish you'd had your real-life fairy tale wedding.

Small, cute wedding! It's more special.

You don't ever want to look back and regret it...family and friends should be there...you could always get married again at Vegas for your 10 yr. anniversary but not the other way around. : )

You will regret eloping and not having your close friends or family!

If the family approves the small wedding, if not freak them and elope!8-)

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